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All I have to do nweded look at my husband and the partners of countless women who are friends and clients, and I know for a fact that grownup men want smart, accomplished women as partners, lovers and wives.
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And lead to deeper, more meaningful conversations discussing where you went to college or how many people work for you. Try it on your next date, with Olxer colleague or even in your next email to a potential online date. Let me know what happens in the comments below.
Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. This is probably the most succinct, practical advice I have ever read. Thank you, Bobbi; that is a game-changer. Love to hear that Trisha!!
intelligejt Now go out and keep being smart, in a smart way. If she makes good eye contact, is conversational, comes across as truly interested in getting to know me, is my intellectual and maturity equal, those are qualities that I hope to see in a lady. Unfortunately I did not read this advice sooner and have driven my man away, as he is now ignoring me. Such Older and intelligent man needed pity. If only, we women, were willing to listen and try.
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Although, I was once shattered, I realize I am no intflligent living in those moments.
Enjoyed this article, btw. I am an attractive female, but I am also smart too.
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Most of the time, when I turn the convo from sexual to intellectual, they are turned off by then. Where are the smart and attractive guys??? Abby, I really like your perspective. You sound like a nice, mature person with a good head on your shoulders. I am a divorced year-old man with an MBA. Not much higher, but above the line. I have been in a PhD program, but I left it to fall in love and have children. I am a former college athlete Senior Horley dating in and a father of 2 who is in touch with his feelings.
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But, all these accomplishments will not make you a sexy woman to me. Allowing me to impress you by moving furniture is sexy. Allow me to be your hero for picking up a sandwich on the way to your house.
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And, I suspect, some if not all of them were attracted to me, but I needed the space to be the hero. Your eloquence and forthrightness is Oldee appreciated.
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Last guy I met at a dance, he was nice enough, treated me well, we dated …. Dumped immediately even tho I was really sad. No settling for this kind of thing, I respect myself too much.
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Most are damaged by divorce, not done their inner work to heal, are damaged by their parents, scared to commit etc. And no doubt men mostly want younger these days…. Most are just there to find a woman to make them look and feel good ….
I think the culture here in the US breeds these types. But I enjoy the read! Good luck everyone.
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